Responses vs. Reactions
Yesterday I rolled no-gi for the first time in a while. No-gi classes are on the weekend; time my wife, Tania, and I take care of home and baby stuff, so I usually do not get to attend these classes. But yesterday I made it to no-gi class by making a strategic time trade with Tania. Matrimonial grappling!
Being on unfamiliar ground; rolling without the benefit of grabbing onto an opponent's gi, I found the no-gi situation initially frustrating. The moves and fundamentals were the same as gi training, but more difficult and less forgiving when going on the offense. And a little easier on defense accept for dealing with the high skill level of some of my teammates.
That brings me to some thoughts from this class; in any situation you either "react" or "respond".
Reaction
When I am put in a new, unfamiliar, or position or situation I have trouble dealing with; I react. My reaction comes from an unconscious awareness of a situation that must be dealt with quickly. Untrained reactions, like mine as a white belt, are usually clumsy and defensive. Or sometimes my reaction could be, "hey, look at what I got" and then leads to a successful offensive movement. But reactions are simply unplanned.Response
Responses are far better than reactions when learning. A response implies an awareness to a situation before it happens and as it is happening. Responses are a result of repetition of training a specific move over and over until it can be understood and applied properly when the situation allows. A response means you know what is going on from start to finish.As a white belt, most of my rolling is reaction based and the reactions are most times incorrect. But every once and a while, thanks to my training and repetition, I get to respond. Setting up and being aware of properly applying an Upa from the bottom of a mount, triangle from a broken closed guard, and various sweeps are currently my automatic "responses" to situations. I add more and more responses every time I train and every roll I fight.
The more responses I have in my arsenal, the better fighter I will become. And the only way to assemble more and improve responses is to train more. So I guess Brazilian Jiu Jitsu is all about ingraining proper and automatic responses to various situations and building the physical tools to make them happen. But in the future, I suspect, my responses will be so automatic and correct in application, they will simply become reactions again...
Ous.

When I first started training, my feet would constantly get friction blisters from the training mats (Judo tatami at my club). If I trained no-gi, my knees and sometimes elbows would also get scarred up. Painful? Sometimes, but more of a stinging sensation. Annoying? Certainly, because the wounds would not heal before the next class 2 days later.
The three main reactions to any stressful situation; fight, flight, or freeze.

I have a one year old son, a wife, and a business to run so sometimes my time is limited to workout outside the time I schedule for classes. I have one hour to work out, what do I focus on? What is more important, endurance (running, elliptical, swimming, etc.) or strength (lifting, pulling, pushing, etc.)?
A champion. A teacher. A leader. A defender of a family name. A family that would alter the face of a millenia of martial arts evolution. An inspiration. A life lived which would impact thousands and thousands in a most positive way. A hero.
There is only so much that can be covered in a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu class. Generally, in our class, we learn 3 or 4 variations to a position, defense, offense, or progressive situation. In Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, there are a lot of details to be learned in order to improve. And, in the beginning, a very limited time in which to pick up complex techniques.